My spouse had lost her attractiveness. Instead of beautiful hair, she had a ridiculous bun on her head, and instead of a graceful manicure, she had short, unpainted nails. Instead of the feminine dresses she used to love to wear, her wife started wearing shapeless sweatshirts and stretchy pants.
She stopped wearing makeup. When my wife woke up in the morning, she would wash her face and go straight to her chores, forgetting to tidy herself up. She became overweight, which made things even sadder. She had cellulite, flanks, and stretch marks.
When we met, my wife was a femme fatale beauty, all men turned their eyes after her and I was overwhelmed with pride that she was with me. Now everything has changed dramatically. There was a creature walking around the apartment who didn’t even pluck her eyebrows or put a bra on her breasts, which were not in the best shape.
It seemed to me that the current person and the woman I had met were different people. I made the decision that I didn’t want to be with her and ended the relationship.
How surprised I was when I saw her a year later. Towards us was a woman of unreal beauty. She had red hair and beautiful makeup and clothes. She walked and attracted the attention of men with her beauty. She wore a tight dress that emphasized her beautiful figure. Her hair fluttered in the wind. There was an expressive gleam in her eyes.
She was not overweight. Her hands were adorned with a beautiful manicure and her face had attractive makeup on it. I couldn’t believe myself. She was a beauty queen. And she was the mother of my three children.
Only later, after our separation, did I understand why my wife had changed so much. After all, she had given birth to our third child. The skin could not quickly return to its former state, and as a result, it became flabby. The body could not recover so quickly, after all, she had given birth to two children with little age difference. Moreover, she had young children to take care of. Where to find time for various beauty treatments? And when was she to go out in her beautiful outfits if all her free time was devoted to her home and children?
While our kids were asleep, my wife would try to spend at least half an hour with me. She had no time left for herself or her appearance. I realized that my wife was picking out clothes that she would be comfortable in. She was doing a puffer on her head because it was the easiest way to get her hair together quickly. And she wore stretchy sweaters and pants because she didn’t mind getting them dirty or torn, because she spent all her time with the children. Despite the total lack of time my wife always looked happy. The house was cozy, delicious food was prepared. She always remained kind and friendly. Only a fool could refuse such a woman because of temporary changes in appearance. And that fool was me.
The kids are older now. My wife attends fitness classes, thanks to which her figure looks divine. She emits the scent of pleasant perfume, and her hands have long nails. Why didn’t I realize before that it was all temporary? Now I understand that my children and wife were my happiness. And I lost that happiness because I was selfish and a fool who could not analyze the situation.
Unfortunately, my wife will never forgive me for leaving her in a difficult time. I now know that before you condemn a woman for not looking well, you need to look at how she treats you and the house. It’s probably because she just doesn’t have time to take care of herself.
