I don’t want to get married anymore, I’ve been there for 33 years

I have always been a good, caring mother, gentle and without bad habits… My children have always trusted me. I have three of them, two boys and a daughter. I gave birth to my last son at the age of 37 with a big difference from my older children.

Naturally, I had been working all my life, but somehow I didn’t spend much on myself: more for my children and my home, for comfort. I never went anywhere, I never went anywhere… but I wanted to…

Before I married, I always went on vacation somewhere… And my husband was not bad by any standards: he did not drink or smoke, he took care of everything in the house… but he was an asshole. When I was 55, my children were all on their own feet, and I realized that I didn’t want to live like that anymore… My husband has an expensive hobby – hunting: three thoroughbred hounds, lots of different guns, tent-racks, and I can’t afford a cat at home, my husband doesn’t like them… And he dislikes many things that I like.

In September (it was 6 years ago) I retired (but I continue to work there now) and immediately offered him a divorce, with one condition – I give him my 1 / 2 three-room, leave him the garage, car, cottage, everything in the house and all his dogs with guns in exchange for a two-room for me … He agreed, since by that time the relationship had almost disappeared, the children were not home, and personally for him I no longer wanted to do anything …

And so in November I moved into my two-room apartment… With one suitcase… with empty walls… I was so happy! I started gradually making repairs: changed the plumbing, windows, doors and so on…

We have been divorced for 6 years, and now I go to the sea every year, go to concerts, go on different excursions to other cities. I got myself two sphinx cats. I get along very well with my children. I now have such peace of mind, I think that this is the most comfortable period in my life and I do not want to change anything. I don’t want to get married anymore – I’ve been there for 33 years…

I will soon be 61 years old. This story is a true story, and I hope to die not tomorrow…

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I don’t want to get married anymore, I’ve been there for 33 years