I was shocked when I found out my wife was cheating on me. When I found out the truth, it took me a long time to come to my senses. I also did everything for my lover’s wife to find out about everything. In the end, they broke up with him. And my wife’s lover was hated by his own children.
As for our family, we managed to save our marriage with my wife. But something broke in my wife after that. And the fact that she cheated on me caused irreparable damage to our family.
Earlier I helped my wife in everything, fulfilled all her wishes, because I loved her, but now her problems did not concern me at all. When my mother-in-law got very sick and needed money for her treatment, I said:
– That’s your problem! Remember your lover and solve your problems yourself!
When my wife had problems at work and found out she had to pay back a large sum of money, I told her again:
– That’s just your problem! Remember your lover and solve them yourself!
Two years after that we got divorced anyway. My mother-in-law had already died by that time. And my wife even tried to commit suicide, but she was saved in time. My wife’s ex-lover now drinks and doesn’t work anywhere. Neither his ex-wife nor his children want anything to do with him. I am trying to get my personal life together. I don’t regret it one bit that I got back at my wife like that. I shouldn’t have cheated.
Except that after cheating on my wife, it’s very hard for me to believe any woman. I don’t know if I could ever love someone again and get married after that…
