– It’s your apartment! You can do whatever you want there! – says my mother to me. – Move in and redecorate.
And I told my mom, that’s great, but you need to register the apartment in my name. And my mom was surprised and said:
– “Why do that at all? After all, you’re our only daughter! You’ll get everything anyway! After all, your father and I will not take anything with us to the afterlife!
I can’t understand why my mother refuses to transfer this apartment to me. And I just do not want to move into this apartment. Now I live in a rented apartment, and even there I feel more of a mistress than I will feel in this apartment. My mom inherited this apartment six months ago. And she immediately offered to let me live there.
Right now I’m renting a room in the apartment with two other girls.
I’m working and saving up money for a down payment on a mortgage. Of course, I can’t save quickly because I’m renting. But I still believe that I can do it.
In three years I will definitely accumulate the necessary amount of money and then I will buy myself an apartment. Let it be small, but it will be my own apartment. My parents are not wealthy people and they were very worried about not being able to buy me an apartment. I’m already 25 years old and I’m not married yet. So my mother thought that I was not married just because I didn’t have an apartment.
– If you had an apartment, you would settle your personal life faster! – says my mother.
And I don’t want to get married at all. I am now my own mistress: what I want to eat, what I cook, what I want, what I do, where I want, where I go.When I say this to my mother, she does not believe me.She constantly tells me that I have long ago should get married and that we need to solve something with the apartment. […]
But since neither my parents nor I had the money to buy an apartment, we rarely talked about it.
And then my mother’s aunt died and bequeathed her apartment to her. I, of course, had been dreaming of having my own apartment for a long time. But not so that I could have a husband. But simply because I will be my own mistress in my apartment. I will be able to buy whatever furniture I want, I will be able to do whatever repairs I want, and the landlord will never come and tell me to vacate the apartment because he decided to sell it.
As soon as my mother inherited this apartment, she immediately said she would give it to me. Of course, I was very happy. But then it turned out that my mother does not want to make out documents for me. And I don’t want to move into that apartment without paperwork.
– It’s someone else’s apartment!
– What are you talking about? How is it someone else’s? It is ours! – Mom is surprised.
– It’s ours, that’s right. And I want her to be mine! – I said to my mom.
But she didn’t understand me. Mom doesn’t want to pay the utilities, but she’s also afraid to rent the apartment. Mom is afraid that she will get bad tenants. Mom watched a lot of TV shows about different scammers. And now she’s got them. She is afraid of tenants, but she does not want to reissue the apartment to me.
I just don’t know how I can convince my mom that it should be done and that it would be absolutely right. Maybe you can give me some advice.
