A maternal grandmother is the most important person in a child’s life! And even scientists agree with that. Want to know why? ????
Incredibly, it’s a fact – maternal grandmothers are the closest and dearest people to children. They are the closest, most worried about the life and health of their daughter’s child.
How is it possible, you ask, because most of all mothers love their children?
And everything is very simple. On a psychological and less conscious level, grandmothers are closer to their grandchildren, because they are very sensitive to moods and emotions of their blood. They do not leave at the right moment, give valuable advice and always want to see us succeed.
Somewhat reminiscent of the care of mothers, but in this case it is much easier and more interesting. Grandmothers were mothers, too, and know how their daughters feel. Grandmothers try to feed their grandchildren, give their best and worry about them.
We noticed when we were naughty and Grandma was around, we would immediately run to her so she would protect us from the hands of Mom who wanted to punish us. Grandma shielded us with her caring hands and prevented Mom from doing what she intended.
She knows very well what it is to raise a child. She knows how hard it is to raise a decent person. She’s been through it herself. The connection with her grandson is probably because it was her daughter who gave birth to him or her. Grandmothers know very well how hard childbirth is and how hard it is for young mothers. It is the awareness of this pain and connection that makes some feel closer to their grandchildren.
Children feel that special connection and always want to be closer to their grandmother on their mother’s side.
She feeds us deliciously and wraps us in her care. Sometimes imperceptibly, children become outwardly similar to their grandmothers. Girls take on some external qualities, personality traits, and sometimes even the emotional manifestations of some shocks. Sometimes even the reactions are similar to each other.
How else to explain such incredible similarities.
Grandmothers should be advised to be more balanced – psychologically and emotionally. Only in this way can you say that the child will be even closer to his grandmothers.
