A couple of days ago we decided with my girlfriend to get away from the monotony of everyday life and rush to Paris for a week – to walk with a group of women. For my husband, it was a complete surprise. He just had to return from a business trip on the very day that I arrived in Paris. I informed my beloved of my unplanned trip in a message.
“Darling! I flew to Paris with Victoria. My daughter is in your care: you can take her from my mother. I hope you’ll understand me. I’m tired of the household routine, because you can’t help me. Many times I asked to go on a vacation together, but you refused me.
I am raising a three-year-old daughter, as well as cooking and keeping the house in order (and it’s not a small house). My spouse does absolutely nothing at home, he doesn’t even have time or desire for his little girl. He has to understand that the child can not be raised by one mother, he also needs a father’s attention.
And so I recently got out for a cup of coffee with Victoria. It turned out that not only me, but my friend was terribly tired and wanted a distraction from her problems. We went to a site with last minute vacations and immediately decided to grab them. My understanding mother was happy to take my granddaughter to her for the day, and I quickly packed a suitcase and flew away.
I don’t regret my stunt one bit. It’s time for women to appreciate themselves. If men do not want to listen to us, then let’s show their determination by actions. Do not hold a grudge, do not tolerate – act.
