It used to be thought that you had to get married once and live together for the rest of your life. Now it has become clear to people that wasting your life on a man who does not show any care and attention is at least unwise. Why cling and make the last effort to hold on to a marriage that clearly brings no happiness? Unfortunately, it is not always possible for people to separate peacefully and not to traumatize their children. Her husband left her and she was left alone with a baby in her arms. No one could help her. Her ex lived with another woman and did not pay child support.
“My husband left me for someone else, and I was left with a one-year-old baby in my arms. Declared that he was no longer interested in me. We were married for six years. We lived well, sometimes we quarreled. After my son was born, it was as if my husband was replaced: he became irritable on any pretext and would leave the house in the evening. I had a suspicion that he took some woman, but I did not want to believe myself. One day he packed his things and left. And I was left all alone.
Six months ago I met my second husband. I barely managed to survive. Philip turned out to be a very caring man. He saw how difficult it was to provide for and raise a baby on my own. When he saw me off after our second date, he gently asked me if I needed to go to the store to buy some groceries for the house. Then he bought a lot of stuff for the baby himself.
I felt uncomfortable. But I was pleased that he sincerely wanted to help. Then I asked Philip to buy meat. I could only buy it on a holiday. All of my earnings went to the loan on the apartment I had bought in the marriage and the groceries. I used to not be intimidated by the idea of taking out a loan on the apartment and paying for it together. Only it didn’t work out the way we planned.
And when Philip told me that I could buy anything I wanted at the store, I even cried. It was the first help anyone had ever given me! I took only the essentials, and I didn’t even go near the sweets and fruit. But Philip put candy and oranges in there anyway. Then he also brought two huge bags to my house.”
“We dated for several months, and I became more and more convinced that Philip was a very good man. I understood that he cared about the woman he loved and would spare nothing for me. He won me over. Soon we were married. Philip turned out to be a great husband and a wonderful father.
Now I know that endless promises and false romance cost nothing. What matters most is real care and attention from the head of the family. When you are taken care of, you begin to feel safe and respond with love. I’m very happy with Philip. I feel like I’ve found a reliable person with whom I can live my life in peace. That’s what happiness is!”
Anna was truly lucky to have met Philip. Not all women need diamonds and luxury apartments to be happy. Most women will feel happy when they are treated humanly, cared for and respected.
Be loved and choose your soulmate carefully.
