Divorce with my husband was finalized several years ago. The reason for the divorce was his infidelity. I do not earn a lot, but my daughter and I have enough to live a modest life. And my husband pays alimony on a regular basis. Apparently, treason, still, played a role, and conscience does not allow you to refuse to pay child support.
Even the money to repair my car did not spare. I wanted to return it, but he refused. I do not forbid him to see my daughter, they have a great relationship, they meet very often.
But my relatives only know how to criticize my divorce. For me infidelity is the worst thing in marriage. It’s a betrayal. Well, I can not forgive such a thing. So I didn’t find any support from my in-laws. And my own aunt doesn’t even consider cheating a reason to break up a relationship. In life anything happens, you have to forgive and then everything will be fine. For example, to imbue me with more insight, she told me all about her daughter’s luxurious life, who was married to a businessman, had money and opportunities, changed cars, wore fancy clothes and jewelry.
In reality, though, their business made almost no profit, and all this ostentatious splendor spoke not of financial well-being, but of the large number of loans that they were constantly forced to pay off. I didn’t want to quarrel with my aunt; I just stopped talking to her.
The beautiful and rich life ended very quickly for my in-laws. My mother told me about this when she called to tell me the unpleasant news about my sister’s family.
And here’s what happened: the amount of debts in the banks of my mom’s sister and her daughter exceeded 4 million rubles. The banks started demanding repayment, but my aunt’s family didn’t have that kind of money. Then they turned to my mother for help. But how could a disabled person on a pension have any savings? They started asking me for money. But I, with my modest income, could not help them either. My daughter and I, of course, are not poor, but we do not live luxuriously either. But my aunt offered to sell my apartment and car and move in with my mother and help them with the money. This insolence I could not stand it anymore, and expressed to my aunt, all that I think about her and her daughter. I do not owe anyone anything and I’m not going to pay other people’s loans. The aunt hung up and rudely cut off the conversation. We never spoke again.
Later, my mother told me that my sister had to sell her two cars, her apartment, and her business. Her husband left her daughter, and they moved to a small apartment on the outskirts of town.
