“A year ago I divorced my spouse. We separated peacefully. But after a while, she began to pull at me over little things. Sometimes it got to the point of absurdity: “Give me back my sewing kit.” Of course I’m not sorry for the needles and thread, but that’s not the point.”
Psychologist’s Response.
Dear reader, my gut feeling tells me that your ex-spouse is not the kind of person who will forget little things and details. She is clearly a consistent and diligent person.
There is probably no way she can sever her connection to the place she has long considered her home. After all, you can’t do it in an instant. It is a long and grueling road that a person has to go through in order to get rid of the habits of the past.
Maybe she thought that her past life was an unbreakable wall that protected him from all troubles and hardships.
It is more likely that she wants to take every single thing she owns, so that she can never go back to the past again. That way she would sever all ties and not leave a single shred behind in her past life.
Your ex-spouse doesn’t need you at all, but to address a past life that she was intimately involved with. Maybe you were quicker to say goodbye to the past, and she needs more time. After all, every person is different.
