How might the fight for another man’s attention end and was the result worth the effort? Can you say with confidence that you know exactly the answer to these questions? Have you ever had such a situation? Let’s work through these questions together. Here is a true story that happened to our regular reader, as well as the conclusions drawn by the woman.
Honestly, I’ve been waiting for a change for a long time. As soon as I got married, I became unbearably bored. Romance was gone after just two months of married life. Passion was out of the question.
Some time ago I had the opportunity to diversify my life. We have a new employee at the firm. A young handsome athletic man, a little over thirty. All our single girls are immediately interested in the new handsome. But he turned all his attention in my direction.
Quite unexpectedly for me, we started an affair. I hoped for a light flirtation. However, everything went according to a different scenario. A few times we went to a cafe, then joint courses, training, and there I have no memory of him fell in love.
I was not embarrassed by the fact that I have a husband and he has a wife. After all, I had not yet told him that he was married. That didn’t bother us, though. We wanted to be together, and I thought we would always be together.
When I came back from a vacation spent with the new man I loved, I realized I was ready for a divorce. I didn’t want to cheat on him anymore and pretend to be a loving and happy wife. I was sure that nothing connected me and him. So after a two-week vacation, I went into the house and the first thing I did was to tell my husband about my intention. My husband did not talk me out of it. We quickly finalized the divorce.
But when I decided to please my beloved man the news of the divorce, he said I was in a hurry. It turns out he loves his wife and has no plans to leave her, and called our relationship a mistake.
To say that I was shocked is not to say anything about my state after his words! My anger is hard to describe in words. I had given up a peaceful and stable family life for his sake. I had completely changed my life! And now he is telling me how he feels about his wife, whom he cheated on so much.
That’s how I ended up without a husband and without a lover!
But I’m not going to give up. I think that you have to fight for your happiness to the end. I know I can make sure the man I love is mine. Does not want to solve everything peacefully, then I will meet with his wife and tell her all. Then it will be too bad for him!
Do you think our heroine today is doing the right thing? What would you do and what advice would you give to this woman?
