A strict husband has his whole family in a fierce gauntlet. But it is his wife who suffers the most. If a person is a long time is under pressure from a family member, then gradually he begins to think that this is the norm. But everything abruptly changes as soon as the woman becomes clear that the husband himself is not so and right.
Our heroine today has seen a lot in her difficult family life. But she will definitely be fine. Your advice and comments will help her cope with the difficult situation in which she finds herself.
A harsh and demanding spouse.
My husband is a very strict and demanding man. He is the head of our family and makes all the important decisions. He is also used to always being the leader and never makes concessions. Everything has to be just the way he wants and decides. I knew about his character even before we were married, but our fate was decided by our parents. That was our custom.
I’m trusting and open-minded, so I trusted Adam right away. Except that he gradually turned into my master, not my husband. He fully provides for us and demands that I stay at home and do not work anywhere. At the same time, he wants a cozy, tidy house. He likes everything to be clean, tasty and lovingly served.
I had to prove my love to him by giving birth to my son. Despite regular attempts, I never managed to get pregnant. There were no problems with my health. We visited a lot of specialists but nobody found any reason.
I had already given up, but one day I felt bad. It was a bad morning. Adam went to work early and was in a terrible mood. I had to do the cleaning.
Out of habit, I took the test, even though I didn’t count on anything. But this time I saw those two precious stripes! I was so excited, I didn’t know what to do. “My baby is going to be the luckiest!” – It went through my head. I immediately started getting dressed to make my husband happy.
I didn’t call my mom, the first thing I had to do was tell Adam! Five minutes later I was in a cab on my way to work. He should have been in the office a long time ago. I wanted to ask the secretary not to report me and surprise him. But the girl was not at her desk.
Not meeting anyone in the office, I went to my husband’s office and opened the door. Shock and awe! On the desk in Adam’s office sat a half-naked secretary, and my husband was working on her.
“Sorry to interrupt!” – I said and ran out of the office. I caught a cab and drove to my parents’ house. Although in my heart I was worried that even they might not understand me.
My mother cried because I finally got pregnant, and the fact that the child is now no longer needed. And my father was very angry.
If Adam claimed I was making it up, I wouldn’t have any proof. I can’t file for divorce without it. It’s just some kind of trap. I’m trying my best to stay calm so as not to hurt my baby. But what does the future hold for me and him?
Editor’s Tip.
Not always the severity of her husband brings problems to the family. Giving advice in such a situation is not easy. When traditions in families are based on religion, it is very difficult for young people to build their lives the way they would like. In this story, the girl became a real hostage. No one knows how events will turn out now. But she is not guilty of anything or anyone. This is very important, and she should remember that. The main thing is not to give up and not to lose hope for the best!
Has something similar happened to you? Perhaps you have good advice and know what to do for our heroine? Share your experience in the comments.
