I want you to meet an old friend of mine. Grandmother. She has a pretty good pension, housing is also available, but she is a very sad person. My friend’s name is Emma, at her age she already has 3 children – two daughters and an older son.
With one of the daughters she has long ceased communication, since the daughter moved out of her home. And the quarrel is that the daughter got together with a man who was born in the village and had lived there all her conscious life. The daughter’s mother naturally disliked him. No one likes rednecks. It’s hard to judge anyone.
During the wedding, Emma decided not to go to it, because she was very offended by her daughter, naturally, the daughter did not like it either, and they stopped all communication for a very long time. After the wedding, everything worked out quite well for the daughter, she and her village husband have been together for eight years and the two of them go to work together. They make a living together because they already have as many as four children.
In the meantime, the sons went to university together, one of them started working after that, and the other brother found himself a girlfriend, but she is older than him by about five years. His brother fell head over heels in love with this girl, because he had never had such feelings for anyone before.
Emma had disliked her from the very first meeting, because her second son is still at university, and suddenly some girl who is almost five years older than him appears on his path. They decided not to have a wedding, because they had money to spend, so they just signed in the registry office. At first they had a room in a hostel, and a year later they managed to buy a normal apartment with a mortgage.
And everything seemed fine, but my mother was adamantly against such an affair. Every day she thought of how she could ruin her son’s life and divorce this woman. Constantly Emma told this girl that her son was incapable of anything and would not be able to feed her family in the future. After a couple of months they still fought, and then filed for divorce.
A little later, the son found a new girlfriend again, only she was his age and they were colleagues at work. That girl was very different from his ex-girlfriend, because the new one had almost no money, and her parents had died when she was young. Emma’s mother started to tell the girl about her son again, and in the end after a while he broke up with the second girl again.
When his son turned thirty-two, he began to lose hope that he would ever be able to find a woman again, but in his life there was a third, who turned out to be perfect for his mother, because she earned a lot, her parents were also wealthy, with cooking and household chores in general the girl completely coped. Every single day Emma praised this girl, because everything about her was perfect according to her mother.
But later it turned out that this girl had a very sick sister and needed a serious operation. So the girl paid for it in full and decided to help her sister for the first time. Emma began to rebel about it again and insisted that they should get a divorce, and later that’s what happened. After the third separation the man realized that there was definitely no point in his life anymore, so he started drinking in large quantities.
Then the son began to live in his mother’s apartment, because there was no more money to pay for his own and in addition he lost his job. His mother realized that she had to act and look for an urgent woman who would look after him and look after him. But no one wants a man who drinks like that. Not a redneck, not even an orphan.
Since then, it was impossible to tear her son away from the bottle, so he drank, and his mother wanted grandchildren in her seventies, but grandchildren have no one! Who would give them to her? My grandmother understood that this would be a lesson for the rest of her life. She should not have interfered in her son’s relationships and ruin them, so she is still very sorry for what she did, and told her friends not to interfere in their children’s lives. Otherwise it will turn out like hers.
