Often the place of the beloved wife is taken by young, attractive mistresses. What is the reason? Who is to blame for this happening? Simple reasoning says that all the blame lies with the husband, who cheats on his spouse and leaves her for the one who is younger. That’s not very right or fair behavior. Is it always that way?
Most women don’t see their marriage as a long process to be constantly engaged in, but as an accomplished goal. So they get married and relax. Sometimes they have a new goal – to have a child with the man they love, to tie him down for sure.
Then the woman thinks she has achieved everything. Now she does not care about her appearance, she does not put on makeup, she does not work on her relationships, she does not develop. Life becomes monotonous, predictable, and boring.
I don’t mean to say that a loving wife has to look like a glossy magazine cover model all the time to keep her man. No, that’s too much. You should not change your appearance and adjust to fashion trends or the whims of others. But you should still look after yourself. And most of all you should pay attention to the relationship with your spouse.
I know that the wise women who do not consider their main goal for marriage, the habit of care for themselves is developed through the ability to love yourself. For them, the relationship with her husband is just a nice addition to the harmony with the world.
On the one hand, I would like to be indignant that some men allow themselves to treat their wives so unfairly and leave them as soon as their former beauty and youth have faded. But, on the other hand, in part and in some cases they are understandable. As a rule, the main role is no longer appearance, which is often talked about.
It happens that everything is fine with appearance, but her husband still began to cheat. Perhaps all the same problem in this? No? Maybe it’s not the fault of an attractive young mistress. It happens that the husband is simply fed up with constant recriminations, quarrels, dissatisfaction and clarification of relations. With a young mistress everything is much easier and calmer. No complaints, household chores are not so important, all romance and pleasure.
A colleague of mine, as soon as she found out that her husband was cheating on her, acted rather ambiguously. I’ve known her for a long time, but I never give advice, especially in family matters. Everyone needs to decide for themselves what to do. But I do think her story is something for others to learn from.
A woman has been married for over ten years. She is raising three children. Just recently it became known that her husband was cheating on her. And for quite a long time. She sent him a message that he had a few days to pack and left for Turkey. Her mother had been living there for five years.
She left the children with her husband and turned off the phone herself, so she wouldn’t have to listen to any outrage. That’s how she got her revenge on the traitor. Everything is clear with the husband, he is to blame. But what about the children? I still don’t understand her behavior.
And what would you have done in this situation?
