– Mark didn’t know I was 40 years old when we started dating. To be honest, I thought we would split up quickly, but things went too far. We decided to get married and live together. But there is one “but” – Mark wants a child, – sighs Monica.
Mark is 43 years old. He has been married twice, but he has no children. The first marriage in general was a mistake – he and his wife lived together for only a few months. Then they realized that they did not love each other and quietly parted peacefully.
The second time Mark went to the registry office at 26. His chosen one already had a child. They lived together for nine years. A man brought up someone else’s child, provided for him and took him as his own, but his wife did not want to have children together.
She was afraid that Mark would leave her, just like her first husband. And then where would she go with two children? After the divorce she lived a subsistence life, because she was paying off her ex-husband’s debts. Although before the birth of her son he seemed to her an ideal family man.
That is why Mark’s promises did not melt the ice in his wife’s heart. She purposely procrastinated and postponed this topic. In short, they divorced.
The first time he lived alone, and then fate brought him to Monica. The man was so in love with her that he was ready for any sacrifice. But the thing is that Monica does not want to give birth either.
The woman believes that her train has already left. Yes, she does not look her age, but believes that the body is already difficult to carry a child. Mark found out relatively recently that Monica is the same age as him. He thought she was 35 years old at most. Such a flawless appearance contributes to a life free and carefree – with a child everything will be different.
Monica is very worried that she will lose her charm after childbirth. She is not ready for sleepless nights and other difficulties. She did not dream of motherhood in her youth, and now even less so. She is afraid of a lot of things, so she does not even want to hear about children.
But she is afraid of losing Mark, because she really loves him. She has never fought so hard for a man before, but she does not want to let him go. She was not going to deceive her man and told him frankly that she did not want to have a baby. Well, not included in her plans to give birth, why hide the truth?
– Mark came up with a solution! He said that he would make a child on the side. Like, sleep with some woman, and she will then raise his heir. Well, of course, he would help financially and participate in the child’s life. There are women who want to have a baby for themselves – they will definitely agree to such an option. Moreover Mark has a lot of money the baby will not need anything” – Monica shares her plans.
Do you think it’s a good decision for Mark to make? Would you agree if your man, being married, made a child on the side? It’s not about surrogacy, it’s about the natural method…
However, they are adults, so you have to find some kind of compromise, since that’s what happened. That way Monica will be happy and so will Mark. What do you think?
