When my daughter introduced me to her future spouse, I asked her to reconsider, because her chosen one seemed to me at once somehow nasty and disgusting.
It was obvious from the first sight, that the meaning of his life is to hurt someone. However my daughter did not pay attention to my words and assured me that she had a very gentle and attentive young man. But I immediately realized that the future son-in-law has a very shallow soul and is able to walk on the corpses to his goal. Now this scoundrel and I are involved in a story that I have no idea how we can get out of.
My daughter gave birth to two babies by this bastard, and now my granddaughter is seven and my grandson is five. My daughter’s life with this man did not work out, because he was kind and caring at first, but then he showed her his real face. He always turned everything so that all the troubles in this world were the daughter’s fault, even if he himself was to blame for the situation. During the time that his daughter lived with him he changed four jobs, and nowhere he did not stay long because of the conflicts and meanness he caused. My son-in-law has no friends of his own, so he forbade his daughter to meet her friends and told her that she was a married lady and had to stay with her husband.
Then the daughter realized that her spouse was a whiner and manipulator. The daughter kicked her spouse out, because they lived in the apartment she got from her first marriage. Her daughter’s beau kept bragging that he was going to marry a girl with a dowry. And then the bride with the dowry threw him out on the street. When the husband left, he told his daughter that she would be washed away in bitter tears more than once. He wanted to sue his daughter’s children, but he didn’t succeed. Then he poured dirt on his daughter at every turn and made her look like an alcoholic, a slob, and a hysteric. No one believed him, however.
But people like my son-in-law are not able to calm down, and he started running around all sorts of instances and saying nasty things about his daughter and demanding that she be constantly checked by the guardianship authorities. Various checks have repeatedly come to my daughter, but they did not find anything criminal, so for the tick advised to make repairs in the house and that’s all. My son-in-law found that it was not enough, and he started to look for ways to make things worse for his daughter.
And then he got lucky! Somehow he found out that his daughter’s friends were going to her house to celebrate the arrival of their mutual friend. I couldn’t babysit my grandchildren that day, so it was decided to meet at my daughter’s house. Everyone gathered had been friends for years. And then a committee came to my daughter in the middle of the get-together: the aunts were examining the rooms and taking notes. They began to reproach her daughter for arranging drinks in front of the children. My daughter stuttered from fright, and the aunts decided that she was deeply intoxicated.
After that, they put my daughter on the register and now she has regular checkups. At first we thought it was a stupid set of circumstances, because my daughter has a job and has never had an alcohol addiction. Well, how can you draw conclusions about a person based on one evening? I was told by a child welfare officer at the time that these are the times when children can be taken away even because of one slip-up. Then she hinted to me that all the checks were done at the behest of my ex-son-in-law.
My daughter and I do not have any connections in the higher authorities, but now we have a tarnished reputation. My daughter’s husband is a goose and won’t stop threatening her, saying that he won’t leave it at that. I think that my daughter’s mother-in-law is also involved, because her brother holds some position in the city council. Even the neighbors began to condemn my daughter for her addiction to alcohol, although in fact no one had even seen her drunk. Now it seems that the guardianship authority has nothing better to do than to keep an eye on my daughter. My daughter’s house is always in order, the children are clean and fed, but the inspectors go to her as if they were at work. How do I get out of this story now, I have no idea?
