I’ve known Adam since he was a kid. He and I lived in the same yard and, of course, we were friends. And when we became teenagers, we would just get together in a crowd and go downtown. There we would walk or just sit on a bench. We didn’t take relationships with girls very seriously. We were more interested in how our friends would react: we didn’t want to lose face in front of them.
Then I joined the army, and Adam managed to get out of the army. After the army, I got a job, then I got married. We lived with my wife for 10 years and had two children. And then we realized that we had become complete strangers to each other. We started quarreling and realized that we shouldn’t live together anymore. Soon we were divorced.
And then two years later, as a bachelor, I ran into Adam by chance. He had changed a lot in those twelve years: he gained a lot of weight.
We sat in a cafe and got to talking. It turned out that Adam was also divorced and was looking for a woman. A year went by. I met a woman and we married.
Then I accidentally met Adam again and found out that he, too, had found a life partner. But I didn’t like his wife very much. She was a very fat woman.
– What did you like about her? – I asked.
And Adam told me that she was a very good cleaner and a good cook.
– And she also doesn’t touch me! I can drink beer in peace, and watch soccer. And I can go out to a bar with the guys. She’s the perfect woman. She never reproaches me for anything.
I was surprised to hear that. After all, for me in a woman in the foreground is something else entirely. Although, of course, the fact that a woman can cook and clean the apartment well, is also important. But the most important thing is that you are close to a man was comfortable.
For some people cleanliness and the opportunity to eat delicious food is more important. And I want my beloved woman and I to be on the same wave, so that we were as one. We should respect each other and understand each other. It’s very good when a couple have common interests. And we can cook and clean the house together. Which we usually do with my wife.
Of course, there is no difference in taste and color. But when two people ride a bike and pedal in the same direction, then the chances of a successful ride all the way, much more.
Do you agree with me?
